Monday, September 10, 2007 | By: babedevil

Silence of the "friends"

The Situation:

Late Thursday night/Early Friday morning - Food poisoning. Feeling so crappy but still trying to finish my assignment. Finally can't take it anymore, threw up at 4am and went to sleep (or at least, tried to...)

Friday, 11am - Finally finished my assignment. Tummy still feeling queasy so still contemplating if I should go out later tonight. Will see later.

Friday, 5pm - After taking all kinds of medicine for food poisoning and some rest later, was feeling better. Tummy still feels like it's set on 'Slow Spin' but it was manageable. So decided to go tonight. Hey, it's so hard to get this bunch of people together, so I couldn't miss it right? Anyway, earlier on the people who asked me to go used the "We all friends go out just to enjoy together" trump card. Ok, told Emily I would be going but won't be opening bottle because I won't be drinking (drinking on a recently poisoned tummy??? I'm not suicidal you know....).

Friday, mamak, 10pm - Nicholas and Carles were collecting money for the bottles and I repeated again that I'm not opening with them.

Friday, at the club - Went in and sat down at the table. Later AaronL called and said he would be coming and wanted to open bottle with our table. Told Carles about it and he said "You telling me for what?!" in a most rude like manner. Erm, aren't you the one handling all the details???!! So ok, I told AaronL it would be better if he opened with his other friends who were at the club as well. Went to dance downstairs and most of the time I was at AaronL and Joseph's table. Didn't drink a single drop that night, not even the coke from my table.

Friday, mamak, after the club - Two groups of people from the club were there; one group from my table, the other group from Joseph's and AaronL's table. I was seated at one end with my own group and the other group were seated at the other end. Stanley came. Nicholas called him over to where he was sitting and they started talking. Then suddenly Stanley shouted at me "You! Come here I want to talk to you!" and Emily, who was sitting opposite Nicholas, was crying. What the hell is up la? Ok, went over to another table and sat down. Nicholas come also. Then Stanley started shouting at stuff like "What's wrong with you???!!! Why you don't want to pay??!!!", "This is the second time you are not paying", "You so cheapskate isit???!!!" and all his crap bout if you want to club for free then ask your father to open a club, bla bla bla.....Then I told them la, why should I pay for the bottle if I didn't even drink? And Nicholas started saying stuff like it's not fair to the other two girls who didn't drink also but paid, and that other people also think it's not fair. Then I said it's up to them la if they wanna pay, but I refuse to pay for something which I didn't even partake in. Then Nicholas said if you enter a club and sit down at the table then you have to pay, even if you don't drink. Continued arguing until I cannot tahan Stanley shouting at me anymore and bringing up the "second time you didn't pay" issue so I shouted back at him that the first time it was my birthday and they all belanja me, I didn't make them pay for me. Argue, argue, then Nicholas said "Well the solution now is that I 'pau' for the other two girls as well". Then he just got up and left. So ok, went back to the group and I told Joseph what just happened. My group all were having a discussion among themselves bout what just happened. So I just stayed at Joseph's side of the table la. Then later my group all just got up and left. No one came to even talk to me except maybe Keith who came and said bye. I was supposed to go home with Tuan Shen but I guess he forgot bout me too and walked away with them. So I got up and started to follow them but Jospeh told me that he'll send me home. But then my stuff was all at Tuan Shen car, so no choice, I had to follow him. At that same time I think Tuan Shen finally remembered me and came back to get me. So followed him home lor. It was the most uncomfortable ride home ever. There was this kind of uneasy silence between us, the only time we talked was when deciding which way to take home.

The Rant

1. The payment. I've already told them in advance that I wouldn't be opening bottle with them. And in the beginning, when Carles asked me to go, he said ladies don't have to pay. That was his exact words, "When clubbing, ladies don't have to pay". Maybe he meant don't have to pay for entrance, fine. So what's the problem now? I only did what you promised me, I got in the club without paying. I didn't even drink a single drop of your alcohol or coke, so why are you asking me to pay now? Then when we were arguing at the mamak, let's call it the Let's Intimidate Stephanie Session (LISS), I asked him "Did you pay anything to get me in the door?", he replied "NO, but blablabla....". Now, let's focus on the "NO". If you didn't pay anything to get me in, why should I be asked to pay anything now??? It's not like you rugi anything....And that stupid thing bout paying just for sitting down at your table, pay RM60 just because I put my ass on the couch??!!!! You've got to be kidding!!! And some more they wait until AFTER the club then only tell you that they expect you to pay. It's like saying "Surprise!!! You owe RM60 for sitting down. Now pay up.". If I knew they were gonna expect me to pay just for bringing me in I wouldn't have gone, or I would have asked Joseph to bring me in.

2. The LISS. Wow, two guys ganging up on one lone girl. So macho hor, so man hor....Stanley's not part of our group of friends. He's just Emily's boyfriend. He wasn't even at the club. He just came to pick Emily up. So why the hell did he stick his nose into something that had nothing to do with him anyway??? And yelling at me in front of the whole mamak like some wannabe gangster some more. You call yourself a man, yelling at a girl like that?? Ya, CAVEman la.....And Nicholas, wow, that one even more special, ask a guy who had nothing to do with the issue to help you bully a girl. Some more he can say "I dunno how to talk to you because I'm not close to you". Ya, so you go and call your gangster wannabe to be your backup la...Such a spineless worm. A piece of advice, GROW SOME BALLS!!!

3. The other girls paying. Hey, if you wanna cheat those girls who hardly club into paying for YOUR drinks, then shame on you! Celine only drank coke, which Nicholas said was free flow for him. So in other words, you are making her pay for YOUR drinking! Those of you who expects me to pay for YOUR drinking, even though I didnt even drink a drop, SHAME ON YOU. And let's do some math here ok?

RM60 x 3 girls who didn't drink / at least 18 people who were drinking = extra RM10 each person

Hey, extra RM10 for your own drinking and you are complaining??? And then you wanna call me cheapskate???!!! If you don't wanna pay the extra money, then stop opening more bottles!!! Stop drinking!!! Don't go and expect me to pay for what you drank then whine when I don't pay up.

4. The silence. The thing that hurt me the most was when not one person from my group stood up for me. No one said "Hey, why is this guy shouting at my friend?", no one came over during the LISS to ask "What's going on? Why are you two guys ganging up on a girl?". Some of them can get so worried bout a strange guy looking at another one of our girl friends, but no one was worried bout a guy shouting at me. And when I went back to the table, no one even came and offered me a kind look or word. No one came and supported me. No one asked me how I was. No one. It was like they all shunned me. And here I thought I had friends. I've always stuck up for them and comforted them when they were sad, but now, none of them have done that for me.

Well congratulations, you have managed to do what no one outside of my family has ever done. You have managed to be my undoing. You have managed to make me cry. Thank god Wawa replied my sms that day. He was the one comforting me at 5.45 am, even though he didn't even know what was going on because I still haven't told him what was wrong.

Up until today, no one from that night has called or sms-ed me to ask if I was ok. How wonderful is that?

82 comments:

CincauHangus.com said...

i did! >.<

babedevil said...

i mean those who were at de mamak there la...dun worry, din mean u...

carloz007 said...

Thank you for making my name appearing on internet. Btw, if you are not satisfied and said i am lying to you, why dont we put an argument? I mean IF you bring two girls with u then its free, concentrate on IF not the NO. Anyway you are the one who told YOUR GANG "Next week POPPY? NO WAY, THAT PLACE SUCKS..." Ladies and gentlemen please digest this drama.....

Anonymous said...

erm... excuse me... i think u made a mistake.. when i call standly to cum is to not scold emily cuz of she like drunk and sad... mind ur words gurl u still dont know who am i yet...

i hate being asume...

so dont simply shoot when u dont know nuts...if u wana play i can play with you.. ill allow you to choose either you prefer the darker side or the bright side.. cuz im not just good at both side im POR at both side..like i said you DONT KNOW ME ENTIRELY YET!!

Anonymous said...

babe, none of them stood up for you not because they got no guts to do so, but i can tell you one thing, most of them think that your action is wrong, therefore, no one standing on your side.

if the place really sucks, why you still want to go at the first place? if you go for the sake of togetherness and bonding, shouldn't you share the pay as well? just because you are girl, so you no need to pay?

if that is the rules, for all the guys please listen up, next time when you bring you girlfriends out, you are obligated to pay for them, no matter what is the situation or circumstances, ok?

your case is, others already went in and pop bottle, started drinking, you go in but don't drink, then no need to pay, correct? do you thank the person who brought you in? if without that person, can you go in? if thats the case, next time when you go watch movie, please don't pay too, because you tell the management of the cinema, since they already fixed the movie running at specific time, no matter the hall is fully seated or not, the show must go on, so you can go in for free, since they are running the show anyway, correct? next time take bus, no need to pay, because the bus already filled up with enough petrol to reach its destination, regardless how many passenger on board, since its already going there with or without you, why you must pay, correct?

nicely done on your blog post, so people who is not there on that day would buy your words. thanks for showing up your real face to us, now we know who you are.

maybe i have no guts, but what i said here represents many voices, as the matter of fact.

Unknown said...

I thought I appologised to you already, TWICE!.. whats the deal now? whats up with the whining?

Please understand im not againts guys paying for girls, i believe that girls need not pay for entrance actually, but THEN everyone agreed on payment upon entry as well as you guys being students.. share the burden for a little fun.. thats all.. i didnt even go and i chipped out money.. so?.. What's done is done, I appologised to you twice. If u cant accept it and want a full scale war then please bring it..

Gangster wannabe? Its protection over people I love! What would you do if someone like ur brother for instance gets bullied? You retaliate right? You should learn about that sometime.

No one came to consult you, does that tell you something?.. think about it..

Anonymous said...

Last post was by me, no one knows me as Condemned.. Sorry, signed in wrong account.. Layzebone is better, now you know who you're talking to.. Alot of people really HATE you, i just thought you should come to realise that. wake up from dreamland and smell the air.. stop whining coz no one cares ;)

If you think that you're a girl and you no need to pay for anything, dont study coz its useless, you dont have to work anyways, guys pay for everything dont they?..

If people offer to treat you then u get treated & if they dont, u whine?.. lol

Freeloaders should get shot!

To all the steph supporters, every story has two sides.. make your verdict properly.

Anonymous said...

aite... since u posted this up, so I guess EVERYONE ady read about what u've said. I hope there are some comments about it.
1st of all...

1. The payment. Well... Yea, it's true that every1 says Girls dont have to pay for clubbing. BUT... it depends on which group you going with. This group... the payment is divided equally... which means ppl who DONT drink, drink LESS also need to pay. Lets say, 10 ppl go club, open 1 bottle, 5 persons go there but not drinking, 2 persons drink less, left 3 persons who drink. So, how r u going to calculate? 1 thing, DONT EXPECT PPL WILL PAY FOR YOU eventhou u're a gal. Girl not "dai sai"

2. If ppl collect money from u, means they're not going to pay for the girls. What is the point of arguing? If they will pay for the girls, when the girls give money that time, they will say girls no need to pay. It depends on which group u go clubbing with larr... not every group of frens u assume that girls no need to pay. understand a bit loh...
[this my point of view, correct me if im wrong]

3. The LISS. Do u know that, bcoz of this thing. I argued with stan, I scolded stan who campur tangan in this thing? Anyway, u just mentioned how stan yelled at u, blablabla... did u mention that he APOLOGISED to you? No right? I know he being busy body and shuden take part in this situation, but ppl ady apologised, why u didnt mention it in ur blog?

4. The other girls paying. Coz the guys didnt say girls no need to pay. I drank, I paid. Those girls who din drink but paid coz in da gang, nobody say girls no need to pay ma.

5. The silence. If u wanna say nobody stood up for u, i think ppl also feel dat is not right if u didnt pay, coz ppl who didnt drink also paid. The rules is u come, u pay. I know, gurls no need to pay, guys pay all, but now the guys didnt say exclude the girls ma... what can we say leh? :S so dont blame lo.. dont assume that u r girl u no need to pay... dont expect that guys pay for us also. And, if u say nobody stood up for u, why when the other girls paying money that time, u didnt stood up for them since u said girls shuden pay?

(if anything i've said wrong, terus shoot me back here...anyone. I dont mind... correct me if i'm wrong...)

Anonymous said...

Well,
1stly, depends on ur group individually on whether gals need to pay or not.. Different group have different style of clubbing... There are gals offer to pay, there are gals being told not to pay, there are gals even KEEP QUIET n act dont know too...

2ndly, if the guys didnt mention it was their treat, den u shud pay for it... If not, how u go in? Do u know, the PR of the entrance will count on the numbers of ppl walking in with the numbers of bottles they opened? (eg. 2 bottles for 8-10 ppl and the 11th onwards need to pay cover or open another bottle) If u dont pay for the bottle, how u walk in if ur frens cant bring u in dat night? If i'm not mistaken, that's not ladies' night.. Gals wont have the free entry to walk-in anytime they want unless they are regular n well recognized by the PR... If u can simply walking in on ur own and didnt drink a single drop of the liquor, den ONLY u shudnt pay ...

That's it ..

I don't know wat happened at the mamak but i'm leaving comments on the clubbing part..

PS : I dont have a blogspot account and i'm really an outsider..

Anonymous said...

...i have co comments on da arguements but why i never involved but my name still appear on the net?
do u know when u post the others name on the net wihthut that particular person permission is extremely rude action..i dont know whether u agree with me...but at least for my part,"YES!IT IS".
if some people likes to let whole world know and agree with what happended that night,juz do it..and please do it WITHOUT my NAME..once again..i never involved and im not going to take part in the arguements

i hope that my name wont be posted by some one on the net again..get it?

Anonymous said...

Coke is free flow at the nite
Who will pay rm60 for free flow coke?
Everyone going in for free
Who will pay rm60 for free entren?
u go in, u drink , u pay, u think is fair.
u go in, u drink little, u pay, u think is fair
u go in, u dont drink, u pay, u think is fair for everybody
u go in, u dont drink, u dont pay, people think u suck.

Before going, u tell "I not gonna drnk and not going to pay also", people agreed.
After, people come to collect money, u dont give, people think u are suck.

10 people also 1 bottle open, 8 people also 1 bottle open. 10 people go, 1 dont drink, also 1 bottle open. u not gonna open 9/10 bottle. Whts the different? only pay more or pay less, 2 option only.

So, why paksa people who dont drink to pay?
if like that, why dont reject them at the beginning to avoid this kind of situation to happen? It is u think friend mah, hard to reject? Must have fun together?

Anonymous said...

So please,
Its not that everybody against u, just speak out since u write something we think it is not right.

And please remove the name that you wrote in ur blog. Cause it is unethical to do this. I hope you understand.

Anonymous said...

1st of all, YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG! You went in but u didn't for a drop of liquor even coke also, then you no need to pay, What Are You Talking About? A group of friends(Students) having a party or celebration, then everyone should pay, UNLESS there is someone say that "For all girls, you all no need to pay, Guys will cover for u ALL", but , did any of your guy's friends mention that? if yes, then you no need to pay. If no, then you NEED TO PAY! If u keep emphasize that u didn't drink and no need to pay, and you mentioned that why you have to pay if you just put your ass on the seat but you didn't drink anything, then is that case, next time when you go sing with a group of your friend, when you enter to the room, the person who in charge sure go and count for how many persons, if the person count you also, then you can shout back the person, "You think i just enter your room and i need to pay if i didn't drink and sing?" If the person say sorry to you and he/she say you are right, then for those people who have posted their comments that against you are WRONG, then you are RIGHT. Try to do that one day. Second, if next time you go for movie, you don need to buy ticket and try to walk in, if there is anyone stop you then you just tell them, "I go inside and i will just close my eyes, so i no need to pay", see what they will reply you, if they say sorry you are right and you don need to buy ticket, then for those ppls who have posted their comments that against you are WRONG, then you are RIGHT! Third, next time if you go any concert, and you enter the concert on time, you don need to buy ticket also. if there is someone stop you and ask you for your ticket, you just tell them ,"I go inside will just close my eyes and stand there, so i don need any ticket to enter the concert." If the people say you are right, then for those comments that against you are WRONG! Please don't assume that you are girl then you no need to pay...as what they said, girl is not dai sai, is TRUE. in this world , everyone is EQUAL. From what I have read ab the all the comments, i know that you all are still students. So, if group of student held a party or going to club, everyone should pay for the fun, don't you agree? sometimes we need to be steady a bit, don everytime also expect for something that are free, in this world, EVERYTHING ALSO MONEY. Money can cause an argue, why don't you think deepest a bit? Why you want to against all your friend? is't money is so so so so so important to you that can make you left all your friends? And one thing, "Grow Some Balls", Please la, if you wan to scold a person, please mind your word, everyone had their own limit, if people are sporting and won't be counted with you, then you are lucky, else, dunno what will happen. And, please don't write the person name because you are helping you friends to be famous, please don easily spoil their reputation. is not fair to them. Last, hope that you guys can end up this arguing, is not worth at all, don because of MONEY then cause the arguing, is not WORTH at aLL!!!

Anonymous said...

y paksa ppl go if they dun wanna pay? TRUE!

But, you r d ONE that said "POPPY SUCKS! I DUN WANNA GO THAT PLACE!" but y u still wanna go?

ppl got ajak u meh? ppl tak ajak u come urself, sendiri buat malu saje!

pls look into a mirror n c who u r, u think u very expensive? RM60 also cannot pay!

Anonymous said...

babedevil, you start a battle.
Now u are already at war....
So please make this as a golden lesson for you in your life.
You need to learn more to give and take in this life.

Anonymous said...

the one who posted this :
"Before going, u tell "I not gonna drnk and not going to pay also", people agreed.
After, people come to collect money, u dont give, people think u are suck."

u juz dont really know what happened..because what u said is wrong..
we never agreed that someone go in without paying,and we were asking around for friends to join us and we mentioned about the money issue..OK
and someone said,WONT JOIN US FOR CLUBBING.ok..that was cool..
but end up??
if u only listen to 1 side,and just come here to post what u thinking..for my advice is..
please,cut your craps

Anonymous said...

For the love of God! Steph, you came up with such a long ass post, which if I'm not wrong is one of ur top 5 longest posts to write about "you not paying to go clubbing". Jesus Christ, who do you think you are? You think you are some kind of princess or something when you think that you went somewhere with your friends and you don't have to pay? Please la, you are not pretty also. I thought ppl didnt like you because of your size, but now i know its because of ur attitude. Why are you such a cheapskate? You are willing to lose your friends rather than pay RM 60 for clubbing? I'm not saying I'm rich or something. RM 60 is a lot of money, but if u don't want to pay, then do go clubbing at all, and save yourself all this embarrassment! You make all ur friends hate you and talk about you and next time, dont expect ppl to call you to go somewhere to club...orite. You always like to boast.. you know this person and know that person... bla bla bla.. im pretty sure that those ppl also dont like you steph! You seriously have no respect for your friends, and you have such thick skin... Ppl scold you and you still so degil. And as far as commenting on ppl's balls and all, I have to say you are damn lucky! One day, you say this to the wrong person, you might get a bitch slap in public. You have a typical kiasu way of thinking. You take advantage of ppl and you are not truthful in your post. Why didnt you say that person already said sorry to you!

To all those who have left comments, I am aware that there's always two sides of the coin. And in this case, STEPH IS WRONG AND SHE SHOULD PAY FOR THAT NIGHT!

Steph, since you're such a hard headed moron, who insists that you are only right, then next time, dont go clubbing with ur friends ok! You do everything on ur own! Live life on ur own.

I still cant believe that you think that guys should pay for girls when they go clubbing at all times. All my different groups of friends always say that girls have to pay if they go clubbing to cover the cost and so on..unless ofcoz it has been preplanned that girls dont have to pay. If all this while you have gone clubbing and guys have been paying for you, and you have never paid for clubbing at all...then ur just a cheap slut!

You want to post about guys and think that you are so tough online, wake up la. Dont think that you are so damn strong, someday, some guy will put you back in your shoes!

and steph...for the final time,... YOU ARE WRONG IN THIS MATTER!!!!

Anonymous said...

peacefully, 1st thing is.. did anyone ask you join us..if there is anyone asking u join us.. then im sorry that i dunno bout it. 2ndly, we are just friends, we are not even CLOSE fren, y should i pay for u? OKOK fine, maybe u will tell me that we boys is responsible to pay for the girls, but since the girls is paying themself, but u are excluding urself? does it fair to everyone? are u wanna tell me that u are not a girl? then im sorry again. 3rdly, u said u nvr drink inside there so that u resist to pay, is that ur reason? wow then ur world will be sooo wonderful la, everything is free for girls :) i dun mean to flame you or what, i just wanna let u know why im not standing up for YOU okie?

Anonymous said...

and with my post... i hope that u are happy now steph...ur friends are no more silent..or ur former friends.. why dont u make ur next post... Silence of the "no longer has friends" steph!

And while ur at it...u can change ur title to "I was gonna say somethin... oh yeah, I'm a cheapskate!"

I rest my case!

Anonymous said...

Wow! having KFC party over here? So many chicken posting comment for this issue. Show your name la..

Anonymous said...

dont start comparing dick sizes alex.. anonymity is used to avoid upfront tension...

Anonymous said...

omg..bein clubbin for 9 years adi..tis is da 1st time hearin tis nonsense..gosh..money ova freinship..wthack??..frankly both side is at fault..get it ova n jus b frienz bac..n guyz..stop spammin fire on them ler..nt lik u guyz r f**kin perfect rite..!!make luv nt war..peace out** -bogymen-

Anonymous said...

well anonymous, you said peace and all..but still use the word f*ck. How bout u start first...

and yeah...can be peaceful... but well...sometimes...problems have to be addressed...when ppl f*ck u... u gotta f*ck back

Anonymous said...

chill ler..tats wad makes u a f**ker..wakaka..!!didnt u c i actually didnt spelled it out in full?..btw may i who r u..?jus curious =)

Anonymous said...

haha...

anonymous...i actually was submitting a post saying peace and all at u...and i didnt mean to say f*ck at u...its just a general comment...haha...but then the internet died for a minute..

anyways.. yeah...im chill and i can see that u didnt spell it out in full... LOL... anyways...

who am i...is not really important.. its best not known...

Anonymous said...

cool dude..lets keep our profile low..haha..cheerz..=)

Anonymous said...

Well what i wan to say is whos the 1 promise STEPH of free entrance?? Then just make sure that F**ker pay! we guys not really know what happened! and no such promise had been made ok!!

Anonymous said...

yeah...keep a low profile would avoid having a confrontation in public.

cheerz back to u too..

haha...steph's blog is like an irc channel now...

Anonymous said...

Good evening, after reading the comments it suddenly struck me in my mind. It reminds me of a friend who is just like you. Basically she was brought up with one kind of mentality which is marrying a rich guy and that's my motive. haha well eventually she actually did look for rich guys and delaying her studies. She even fall for a player who doesn't like her but just go for the farks. In the end what to do, her way of thinking doesn't change. Everytime we go out for clubbing, she will tell my gf(coz they are friends) that she doesn't need to pay whenever she goes clubbing eventhough she drinks or doesnt. Eventually those guys just want to go for the kill and most of them will never mix with her anymore. Well basically those friends of hers are not earning an income yet and they didn't know what kind of mentality that she has. It is very weird for a girl who has that kind of mentality. Even for some guys who will pay for the girls IF the girls are their gf. It sounded like you are living in an ice age where guys need to pay for the girls. Today we are talking about being independent and not depending on others anymore. Come on 21st century and not those 90s where women are staying at home and not working. No one will be thinking of marrying a rich guy and no need to work for the rest of their life. It is not because of anything but it is because they are educated people, civilise people, think rationally and not living in the jungle.
Trust me, if you still doen't change the way you think or it is because you are being brought up this way(unfortunately), I can assure you that you will never have close friends, alone in your life, being look down by others, no celebrations together and forever being used by others blindly just for the sake of going under your pants. Most girls who think like that, they thought they are damn pretty, gorgeous, very high class and etc but when you look at their face, it was like Holy Shit, is that a bull or a pig??
You are lucky enough that your friend didn't do anything to you especially vandalising your house, your car, pouring boiling water/ acid to your face, slashing you up and etc. Talking without thinking is a dumb fcuk. In short it is called an empty vessel making noises. I doubt that your "silence friends" weren't making up stories because I'm sure lots of them turn up with their comments and there's no leakage in it. After judging both parties, this is what I've to say.
In this world, "No money, No talk". If you ain't have money, don't go anywhere. Just hang out in the mamak stall to have a friendly chat. Don't expect your friends to pay for you everything as they are not your ATM machine. Expecting guys to pay everything means you are no different compared to a slut, whore, mistress and dumb fark with no brains where you can't even support yourself.
If you can't and still very eager to go clubbing then offer a guy something in return! (But I doubt that there are guys going after you).
What they say is true, girls are not Dai Sai. If they are, what's the point of buying make ups, pads, clothing and etc if they are Dai Sai?? They should be given for free and complain to the Wanita Umno about this right?????
Your kind of mentality is so sickening and because of your species, it makes the society so sick and a sick world to live in. That's why most researchers said that the world's society is so sickening and didn't know where they have this kind of mentality.(Typical Elderly, a.k.a parents who aren't educated)
The best way to do is to get yourself a life in the next life. No mirror, then pee on the floor to look at yourself. After reading it, it really makes me so pissed off where you can't even think of your friends burden and you're just thinking of yourself. So childish, selfish and immature. I guess what you should grow is "grow up". Be more educated, independent, thoughtful for others and not being so stuck up. Showing off is the most stupid thing to do. Example, your sister married to a rich guy and to stay in a bungalow. SO??? What's the big deal? Is not YOU who's staying over there. You don't get the fcuks from the rich guy and it is so shameful to boast about it. Don't you think so? People will think that you are just depending on people and can't live by yourself. 100% this kind of people is worth to be look down by others. Rich so? NO diff compared to a mistress like those days or kena "pau" from the rich guy.
If you want to show off, then can you show off to everyone in this world? What can you show off? Properties? Assets? Nice body? Cute? One question, you might be asking yourself who am I saying this, if you compare to me, can you own a hotel with shopping complex in it? Let me tell you, the construction which is making so much jam right in front of starhill belongs to my father and some other shareholders in Singapore. Until now, I'm still mixing with my friends, not wearing branded goods to show off, not talking out loud, pay equally, not using the most expensive phone but affordable and eating foods which are cheap to fill up my stomach. That's not the only property that my dad has. There are lots but they are not mine. My own business is the property development business in Perak but is still belongs to my dad. I just took over the business. What I'm trying to say is eventhough your family is rich doesn't mean that it belongs to you.
BUT I doubt that your family is rich. Spoilt child will definitely think they own this place. There's always a saying, "Rich people will never say they are rich, only poor people will show off and say they are rich.
If you want to bond with your friends and you can't afford it, go to mamak stall have a chat then. RM60 is actually a small amount living in KL. If you don't have, you can always tell them that you will pay them later and not showing your stuck up faces to your friends or to protect your image. You want people to respect you then earn it and not demanding from them. You have lots of things to learn in life. Piece of advise, read a book on "How to win your friends back". Seriously you can get the book in MPH or Popular. It is under the self improvement section. Buy it and it costs only Rm45 and getting your friends back!
From,
Kelvin Jon

p.s./ Shame of you after reading your blog. This shows how "big" is your brain.

Anonymous said...

Kelvin Jon....

I really respect what u said... u complemented waht I said just now and u "knock the nail into the coffin"

U deserve a thumbs up and as for u steph... now you learn not to f*ck with ur friends...and now u learn that u are nothing in this world...but a little piece of shit that we all have a problem flushing down the toilet bowl...looks like Kelvin is just fed up of ur behaviour...

take that steph...u deserve what u got from him and everyone else who gave u an electronic bitch slap...now u know how cheaply and dirty ppl think of u.. like i said earlier...ur not pretty...and dun try to act like u are... ur damn bloody fat.. so if u think that ppl think ur pretty...then u gotta be dumb

in ur face!

Anonymous said...

camparing dick sizes? too bad that u "say sorry steph" dont have the balls to do that. to avoid upfront tension? you are already in the war zone. Pussy... If really wanna talk, why not face to face? I know no shit, so not gonna comment.

Anonymous said...

TO 'SAY SORRY'
is good to give comments,but i think is too over right now.
try to respect..so..do care your words..no matter what..no point to hurt any one else over here..
yeap..just some humble advice..
no offense..

Anonymous said...

Agree with bogeyman... Juz cut out this "Cyber-War" dudes! Keep spitting off ur angers here is JUST NOT RIGHT... It's really a SHAME on you guys keeping on pouring hot waters on each others... especially in a blog... using so AGGRESSIVE words... letting outsiders to see this kinda thingz here... not considering how people looks at each parties... they will feel that what a shame it happens on APIIT students! Even i myself feel ashame on it... So Com'on we still have a long time to go... we need to do assignments together... cooperate together... if this drama breaks the harmony...then think of it... what r we gonna face each others next sem? every class black face lookin at each others huh? SO think wisely guys... stop ravaging... u r making this war worst...

Anonymous said...

Calm down alex... dun need to be too concerned abt these guys here... not worth to get into this war zone.

Anonymous said...

yes..guyz..this is it..
cut all the craps over here..
no point to have virtual arguements.
past already becomes history..y still argueing for no nothing?
we still have to face each others in same college..
so..please just end this arguements.

Anonymous said...

alex....

dun be a kid orite... grow up mate.. i have my own reasons for not coming up with a name..dun act like a thug here..everyone can talk the way u can... u see i dunno u...and u dunno me...but by using ur name...u put urself vulnerable to harm...lol... too bad u really think like a kid.. what if someday some takes u on..and u dunno who that is also... its orite....

say waht u want man... go ahead... get the pleasure of saying stuff.. LOL...

i just know that at least i know whats best for me...

Anonymous said...

anyone can act like a thug dude... but u see... if u come across someone who can screw u and u dunno who that is..no point calling him a pussy, why, because ur the one whos screwed.. cmon la... no need to be like a thug on blogger

Anonymous said...

and anonymous and outsider looking inside... ur both rite...there is just no point...

i think that what has to be said has been said... it is going over the edge already... oh well...im just gonna leave it...

Anonymous said...

wow wow wow!! DENG TIT LEI!! enuff wey... dun argue larrr... cut this shit. Ya... no offence plz! u may leave ur comments about what she wrote in the blog... not flamming over a girl... And, Never ever say a girl ugly or fat. Itz very hurt to hear that. Dont condemn ppl. Guys, plz mind ur words. Have some respect to a girl eventhou u really beh song/du lan. Aite? chill~ ;)

Anonymous said...

Say sorry to steph:

Well, I just want every1 to cool down... because what had been done here was truly hurting to both parties... maybe some outsiders as well... Yes, what had been said was said... what should not be said was said as well... so it shud come to an end... each parties should have learn from this lesson...

I juz want to emphasize that what was said here was exposive to the public... so mind ur words... yeah emily... ur right... evey1 still need some respects...

CincauHangus.com said...

u guys pushed this thing too far already.. we're all gonna see each other for another sem, as well as lvl 3.. be nice to each other.. control your anger.. wanna argue, at least argue in context... constructive criticism... not bashing her up..

i will not comment on the things that happened at the scene because i wasn't there in the first place, but i will comment with the knowledge that i currently know.

steph: while everyone is entitled to have to have their own comments, i feel some of these comments are too much, and should be ignored.. don't take it too seriously..

payment: i strongly feel that steph should pay for entrance/cover charge only. as to nicholas' actions to refund some amount back, i feel it's already considered generous.. dont pay for drink ok, but at least pay to enter. also, not every group is the same.. this one also can consider a new group.. not everyone will agree that girls shouldn't pay, not on the first time at least..

"... they said can enter free ...": i guess someone was just trying to pull u along only la.. but, clubbing and like every other things, since when free... maybe someone trying to con or it could be a joke..

comments made here: while some comments are ok, there are some which are pushed too far.. and im quite disappointed in those comments..

Anonymous said...

to mr.smart-person say sorry steph.
Ya.. u are right... u are damn right.:P
But, remember this, this is the net, anything can be fake, even name. u think i am acting like a thug, sorry, dude. Wrong guessing. I am so so timid till i even scared of rat. U believe? :P

I dont make enemy, so if oneday some1 take on me, i know is was u.

And i din start this conversation in the 1st place, is you. the one who should grow up is u. Dont be so sensitive, what i type not even pointing to u. ceh ceh ceh...

Salute to "say sorry steph"
alex out!!! :P

Anonymous said...

牛不知角弯,马不知脸长,猴子不知屁股红。。。。

Anonymous said...

to alex....

well... im not a thug either. and i have to say sorry to u for my comments..it was rude.. and to emily and anonymous too. sorry for my attitude..

anyways... to alex... im not gonna hire someone or something...dun worry... sorry bout the egoness..but im not sensitive...i was just replying ur comments..go read ur comments and see...wasnt that rude too.. but anyways..enough said...it was rude...

the person i should probably say sorry the most too...is to steph. sorry for the rude comments and behaviour... its just that i was so hurt by ur comments..

wtc.. 抱歉

Anonymous said...

wah it took me a while to read that 40 comments.

anyway i do agree of what other ppl say here but please ler dun have to say ppl ugly and fat haa maa i know u damn tulan... chill man...

i mean look you guys gona face each other sooner or later just keep it cool man..

honestly no 1 has ever dare to use those words on me man.. if they really know me they could have kneel down and apologise man.. but come to think of it... there is no point of making war over her.. i think its not worth it. not like you can win her entire kingdome or wat..

i think we should let her be and let her brain merinate abit.some times its just not about the money but u at lease "sek jou yan " abit lar..

serious i dint say anything wrong or using unpolite words to you and why are you trying to tell people here? that i have to guts? no guts to do wat? to slap a women..

for my entire life i have not break my record and i think its not worth it for you to break it.

i hope the next party or so called event this thing will not hapen again..

erm... i would want to apologise as well if any of you guys or gurls think some how im wrong or some how i trigger you all i would like to say ahuge SORRY that i really dint mean it.

cheers.

Anonymous said...

nicholas....

im sorry man..i didnt mean that u will slap her... aiyo...this thing become one big mess edi... im feeling so "羞愧". I do apologise to u and everyone here..

cheers everyone...and nicholas.. i hope there is no misunderstanding for what i say... sorry ok..

Anonymous said...

yeah, no point arguing over small matter, we dunwan to argue too...

but who is d 1 tht say ppl got NO BALLS, GROW SOME BALLS? CAVEMAN! ???

u started a big argument wif ur frens, disrespect ur frens, callin ur frens no balls, grow some balls, caveman, u wan ppl to comfort u in return?

wth on earth? y do u guyz become soft? this kinda ppl no need to giv face!

if u wan ppl to respect u, 1st, show ur respect to ppl, dun talk so much nonsense

Anonymous said...

It was on 8 comments yesterday, suddenly popped up to 47 comments.. congratulations! Your blog must be the most visited blog on blogspot!

What's done is done, this is your reality check, Steph. After all the shiet that you've caused and done to hurt your friends who tolerated with your attitude for so long.. its finally exploded with a massive backfire.. there is only so much people can take.. But then I forgive you for your comments about me, and i hope you will forgive me too for shouting at you.. I was just protecting my wifey, k? it broked my heart to watch her cry.. Dont take me wrong, I'd stand up for you if there is unfairness towards you as well..

Stop the flamming and stop everything.. Forgive and forget for we are all just stardust..

Make up and be friends..

Im sorry if my comments hurt and displeased anyone, I never meant it nor do i mean to disrespect.

Peace,
Layzebone

Anonymous said...

It was on 8 comments yesterday, suddenly popped up to 47 comments.. congratulations! Your blog must be the most visited blog on blogspot!

What's done is done, this is your reality check, Steph. After all the shiet that you've caused and done to hurt your friends who tolerated with your attitude for so long.. its finally exploded with a massive backfire.. there is only so much people can take.. But then I forgive you for your comments about me, and i hope you will forgive me too for shouting at you.. I was just protecting my wifey, k? it broked my heart to watch her cry.. Dont take me wrong, I'd stand up for you if there is unfairness towards you as well..

Stop the flamming and stop everything.. Forgive and forget for we are all just stardust..

Make up and be friends..

Im sorry if my comments hurt and displeased anyone, I never meant it nor do i mean to disrespect.

Peace,
Layzebone

Anonymous said...

Well, Steph..
Are you reading this? Or pretending not reading? Or you dont know what to reply? Or your fingers dont know where is the keyboard? Or maybe you forget where is the keyboard anymore?

Next time please think before you do. Not the other way..

Anonymous said...

i just got one last thing to comment on.. its about nicholas...u said that if ppl knew who u were...they would get on their knees.. and say sorry..

haha.. sorry mate...if u knew who i am..u will get on the floor and lick my feet! dont think that ur the greatest..theres always someone better than u... just like how there are other ppl better than me!please dont get me wrong.. i know u are capable of doing things.. but im capable too..so learn to be humble.

everyone can be damn big and powerful, but that all can be taken away in one second... dont have to show ur strength here...were humans.. we can all be brought back down to being nothing... and dude i will NEVER KNEEL DOWN AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS... i laugh when u try to talk big and think u know all the ppl posting here and think that ur so great... seriously bro... sometimes...u gotta be careful who ur talking to

Anonymous said...

I'm wondering how the owner babedevil will react when she comes online and see these fifty new comments. And it's finishing, she just miss out the chance to place a comment on it.

You all are really great, competent, fantastic degree students man. Without the response of the owner you all can bluff these bloody shit 50 comments and don't know who is arguing with who also.

A perfect demonstration on "point + evaluation". Put this on exam.

Anonymous said...

朋友,记住!当指责别人的手伸出去时,有至少三枝手指是指向自己的。责难别人当时,请三思,说出口的话,和泼出的水是一样的,会在对方的心留下一生都磨灭不掉的痕迹。三思慎思!

Anonymous said...

This is such an embarassment to us, APIITians. Deal with this diplomatically...You might say that Stephanie started this, but hey....you don't need to follow. And condemning her abt her appearance? Please don't do that....Those who were really harsh, even tho u were correct...u guys basically brought yourself down....low!

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

-tis topic endz ere-

Plz gv her sum room to breath..gosh..=)

-tis topic endz ere-

Anonymous said...

stephanie might started tis, and we dun need to follow, TRUE!

but she is d ONE who INSULTED evry1, she even commented on somebody's BALLZ! no ballz 4 a guy is such a big disgraze!

Those wordz r really hash too! we brought ourself down, low, TRUE!

but stephanie, u brought urself DEEPER, LOWER!

Anonymous said...

em.... after see the blog the comment and what i heard... what a wonderful story this is..some ppl have their own point of view and some too uneducated... pls la!! if wanna shot some body pls dont involved ppl family members said ppl's family this la that la...sigh...
And guys be more gentleman a bit...a gal go club how much they can drink?? 1 bottle?? as i club for so long as i knw gals wont drink as much as guys all end up guys the 1 who finish the bottles... so what wrong if u all cover up for the gals?? all can paid RMM60 d... y dont just add more RM20 or RM40 for cover up for the gals!!! RM100 for clubbing is consider normal... ok y mostly when go clubbing wan some gal to join us?? cause there will more fun and happening instant of all BATANG rite!! u look at me i look u and look the pretty gals beside the table but cannot touch what the point of go clubbing?? so if ask gals alone pls paid for them la.... this is how u make gals wanna join clubbing with u next time....
(to some ppl)next time when go clubbing pls tell ur frens before it how many bottle will open 2nite and how much it would cost and how many ppl will share...if u told ur fren that you can bring them in to the club for free(cover charge) pls make sure can YOU can do it.. dont end up cant have to open more bottle to bring the ppl in...
and pls dont act as VIP of the club as you not!!! PEACE YO....

Anonymous said...

J, bring in gals to club for u pervert to touch?

does she think ab d pplz she shot? pls J, i beg u, go and tell rite at stephanie's face, pls respect pplz when shoot ppl, shoot only at the rite manner, plz dun involve ppl'z BALLZ!

we did told how many we wan to pop, and we did invite who we wanted to invite...but who is d 1 tht we didnt invite and come? my fren J, is ur fren steph...

who is d 1 said POPPY is CHEAP? is ur fren, steph...

if u, my fren J, can bring her in 4 free, y dun u do so at d 1st place?

my fren J, u wan all d gals to respect u? plz respect gals too, coz they r not for u to touch!

who do u think u r? VIP? can simply touch gals?

who do u think steph is? VIP? can simply walk into a club without paying?

who is d VIP in POPPY, that brought so many pplz in, we all knw who, and we thank him! coz he is d real VIP!

Anonymous said...

Hmm.. seems someone have use multiple id play around here.. same plp act as different commenter to make others feel like a lot of plp not agree wif steph. Be mature plz.. Although she comment about ur ballz or something, but be gentleman plz..
Ur comment to defend ur "balls" make you disqualify to having "balls".

Anonymous said...

oh...u think u so good meh banana? who are u... talk and behave mature...but still u also like a kid.. hamka!

Anonymous said...

haha all argue about money.

Did you all know, financial stuff is the Number 1 cause of break-ups in marriage ?

Anonymous said...

Shouting at a girl = wrong.
Never pay = wrong.
So nobody rite.

Lesson = Don't go clubbing. Waste of time and money.

Anonymous said...

agree with old apek... don't go clubbing much... waste of time and money... drink so much alcohol can kill also... and if want to socialise with friends... go for camping or sport... it's much more healthier... =p

Anonymous said...

Alright, the whole situation has gone a little too far. Let me make this clear, from what I know and heard.

1) The payment has already settled. Since you refused to pay, so to be fair, Nicholas has already refunded to the two girls that did not drink. Problem Settled.
2) If you think that girls do not need to pay when they go clubbing, why didn’t you stood up for the girls when Nicholas was collecting money from the other girls? Quoting from what you wrote: “…I said it's up to them la if they wanna pay…”. It seems like you don’t treat your girl friends as your friends. You only think of yourself.
3) Insulting people and calling people names, is not a way out to solving a problem. What are you trying to prove here? That you’re better than them? Like what WTCF said, when you pin point at someone, 3 fingers are pointing back at you.
4) Writing a post telling the whole world what happened, is not a proud thing to do, especially when you’re trying to put someone down by mentioning their name directly. What if someone did the same to you, do you think you will like it?
5) I do agree that it was wrong and rude for Stanley to shout at you, but at least he did apologise to you TWICE. Did you mention that to others? Quoting “…so I shouted back at him…” So you did shouted back at him. Did you apologise?
6) Alright, first time was an exception that you did not pay when you go to Poppy. But the thing is, even though it may be your birthday and all. Do you expect your friends to treat you as a queen – buy you present and pay for your everything? At least have the courtesy to ask them, how much the share was. If they say you don’t have to pay, then it’s their treat. But don’t always assume.
7) Okay, you said entrance was free but did you managed to walk in there without Nicholas’ help? Else, you probably ended up paying for cover charge. Since it was already passed 11pm when you guys arrived. Those who get to enter for free it’s because they are opening bottle. Isn’t that the clubbing rules? Unless it’s ladies night or you are some VIP or know someone.
8) It was planned before hand that everyone is going to open bottles. Yes, coke is free flow. But everyone else in the group has already agreed to share the cost equally, even the girls. Did anyone say that you’re an exception? Look at it this way. All of them are still studying and they are not working. So what’s wrong to chip in the cost and have some fun? Besides, there’s no place in this world that you can have fun and yet don’t pay a thing. One good example is, when you go to a buffet dinner, whether you eat a lot or little, just drink water or don’t eat at all, you still pay the same price as others. Did you complain? Can you tell the cashier that you only sat there and drink water (which is free flow), and say you only want to pay for water? Or you ate one plate of rice, while your friends had 3. Can you tell the cashier that you only want to pay for one plate and your friend should be charged 3 plates?
9) If the group that you’re joining set a rule, e.g. everyone pay equally for the bottle. So, if you don’t agree with it. Then don’t join them.
10) You told your friends that Poppy is cheap. So, if it’s cheap, then you have given yourself reasons to chip in or pay cover charge.
11) Also, being a woman doesn’t give one the privilege to be bossy around. Yes, when guys mistreat you, you can call them not gentlemen. But guys would really appreciate women who treat them equally.

Bottom line is, the payment issues have already been solved that night, by bringing this whole drama up, I think it’s rather childish and immature way of handling it. Yes, you may have gain fame over night and everyone will know you. Whether in a good or bad way, I don’t know. Look at all the comments posted, friends are arguing among friends. Just because of this issue that you brought up? Do you think this is worth it? You could have done something right in the first place and none of these could have happened. Think about it… It doesn’t have to look so ugly till this.

Anonymous said...

till the end, all blame babedevil alone. Did you guys know this situation happen because of both party?
babe might be wrong at the 1st place but when babe wanna tag along, did you all reject?
U all know babe not gonna pay but you all still let babe to join the party. why?
About the shouting part, it is a good way to fix the problem? Hey, i am talking bout a guy shouting at a girl. No matter how protective u are to your gf, thats not the way to do. being a mature person, cant u sit down and talk nicely? just because you gf is crying, it doesnt mean u got the permission to schout at other people. I also know u said sorry TWICE. U hurt someone feeling, and saying sorry can heal that pain then why need hospital which by saying sorry can heal the wound? If saying sorry can solve all the problem, then this is a truely a peace world to stay in.
Thats my comment after reading this post and all the commments replied.
Peace.

Anonymous said...

oi passenger!

what you say man? Knock your head against the wall a bit la! Think who start this and who start criticize first! Dont just tembak. Maybe bodoh cannot think, if so, dont just comment la. We want all of us to be friends, thats why call her clubbing also. If not, you know her mulut la, will talk a lot until all our ears pain already!

She deserve what she got! Think la idiot!

P.S. Improve your english la when want to comment on english site! You know how dumb this sounds: "and saying sorry can heal that pain then why need hospital which by saying sorry can heal the wound? "

Anonymous said...

Okay everybody,

Nobody is perfect, everyone has their own weaknesses. Some people have bad temper, some people are stingy, some people are immature, everyone has their own bad habits, everyone has their own big problems.

This is life on earth. Its not heaven. Bad times WILL to come, Volcanoes will erupt. Jealousy will come, Its normal.

Majority will be the good times, enjoy is as much as possible.

Its past now, the past is the past.

Forgive and forget, Choose wise friends from now on. Focus on the future success. Be wise on decision making. Stay positive for better things are coming ahead.

May the Lord Bless all of you.
Amen.

Anonymous said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Fuyo~ Old Apek rocks! I like the way you comment :D
So holy :)
Can we be friend?
My MSN:steven_lau_314@hotmail.com
Hope you can see this message :P

CincauHangus.com said...

lol at steven. go eat banana lah.

70 comments. i never got that many comments in my blog, ever. at most oso 46.. =.=

it's time to let it go lah you people.. think about it.. even though u guys remain 'anonymous' don't you think people can guess who u are? and the next time we see each other, don't you feel awkward?

she has her views. she told you her side of the story and interpretation of it. now everyone gave their piece of mind. give her some breathing space.. let her reply.. it's her blog anyways..

let it go guys.

p/s: she doesn't have an internet connection at home, so dun simply jump to conclusions.

babedevil said...
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babedevil said...

wow, i haven't been online in a while n all sorts of new 'stories' have cropped up. let me get a few things straight...1st of all, i din say poppy was cheap, i said i had already been to poppy, n it was kinda boring n i wanted 2 try somewhere else. and if no1 asked me to go, then how would i have found out bout it in the 1st place? and why was i asked my opinion on which club to visit? and even when i expressed my reluctance to go, people still kept on asking me to go, so please, dun make it sound as if u were forced to invite me.

2nd, i wasn't expecting the guys to pay for me, i NEVER for once assumed that i din hav to pay just coz i'm a girl. i din wanna pay for the bottle coz i wasn't gonna drink. why should a person who was not drinking have to share for the bottle? this applies for guys as well. and i've already told emily that i wouldn't be paying coz i won't be drinking and she din say anything. at ajimal before we went to the club i said again i'm not paying, and nobody said anything. so why suddenly the about turn and tell me that i have to pay AFTER we left the club?

3rd, i did stand up for the girls, at least 3 times! i told the girls dun pay if u r not drinking. they din listen to me. i told emily why r u making the other girls pay if they're not drinking, she din say anything. and when talking to stanley and nicholas i did say that celine and nicole shouldn't pay also if they din drink. and didn't i stick up for them AGAIN in this post? but then again, why should i stick up for them if they won't even stick up for themselves. instead, i'm being told that i'm wrong.

4th, even if u apologised, stanley, u think that it will solve everything that quickly? of course i will still be angry, and if u were really sorry, will u still put hurtful personal comments about me?

5th, i don't see any reason to write "C said this" or "N did that". hey, everyone is gonna know who u r talking about anyway, so why bother. i think all those pseudonyms are sneaky and conniving anyway. and if u aren't gonna take part in the arguments, fine by me. having ur name there isn't gonna force u into anything u don't want. but just make sure u mean it when u say u r not gonna take part. some people like to say something to 1 person's face then go around other people's backs and say something else.

6th, ok, so the people there din stand up for me. fine. but that's not the whole point of my disappointment, it's that they din even come and ask me how i was doin after being yelled at like that.

7th, when they came and asked me for the money, i didn't want to pay they full RM60 coz i felt that it was unfair, so i offered to pay for the cover charge. then stanley called me a cheapskate. so the whole point is, they want me to pay for the bottle, and they come and tell me this AFTER the club, when i won't even have the chance to partake in what i have paid for. but then now that i think of it, y should i even pay for the cover charge? it's not like nicholas lost any money tring to get me in, it's like saying "hey, i've got a 20% discount card. u don't have to pay the shop 20% but u give me that 20%". n even if i had to pay the cover charge, i'd rather go back to the club and pay it to them. hey, if i don't stand up for myself and what i believe in, who else will?

8th, if u r gonna leave comments here, at least identify urself. dun just put 'anonymous' and proceed to flame me and anyone who has supported me, with personally insulting comments some more. u wanna flame me, fine, but leave them out of it.

9th, some 'kelvin jon' wrote that rich people don't divulge that they are rich, erm so why r u talking bout how much property u n ur dad owns? i've never said that i was loaded. everyone knows that i don't stay in that bungalow and that it's my sis's place. n how on earth does a person show off a bungalow???

10th, i wasn't dissing everyone with this post. heck, as some of u said, i wasn't even close to some of the people from that night, so i definitely wasn't dissing u. i was mainly pissed at stanley and nicholas. i wasn't pissed at Tuan Shen, I wasn't pissed at Keith, or anyone else whose name was in this post. but if u were one of the people who were conspiring that night with stanley and nicholas to make me pay, then i guess i was pissed at u also. if not, then we're cool.

11th, u have ur opinion, i hav mine. i just said what i believed in MY blog and it isn't even known to many people, just a few close friends whom i can rant to. some people rant to other people with their mouths, i rant with my blog. so if u were passed this link and felt offended, then don't blame me. i didn't make u read it. take it up with the person who lead u here. if u wanna say that i'm ruining frienships because of this post, why don't u look at the person who passed u the link in the first place. if that person didn't show u my blog, then everything would have been fine right? it's like i'm ranting to someone, then that person tells everything that i've just said to another person.

12th, now that i've clarified some things, this will be the last comment i'll be making on this post. i'm just gonna put it behind me and forget bout it. if u guys still wanna continue commenting, by all means go ahead. but i'll most probably not be replying. oh, and please keep things civilised. no name calling or personal insults please. if u wanna do that, get ur own blog.

me said...

wee, wad is clubbing?

the only club i know is 5 wood XD

Anonymous said...

After all these we had gone through, it is time for reality check!

How good are you as a friend and how good are you treating your friends, we know it deep inside our hearts.

From now onwards, you will be able to count and to know, how many friends that you will have.

Anonymous said...

Hi guys, using the sentence from others " Let it go". Steph's just a gal, $$$ is not as important as friendship right? Why u all just can't let her go and pass through? Peace.... is the best ending. And again, " Let it go......"

Anonymous said...

steph, i have to say this... FU*K you! We all thought, kesian you, but then, you're still the same old biatch!

Dont sit with us in class again, dont talk to us, and dont even come near us. One day, you will learn what friendship means.

After all the comments, we thought, poor Steph, maybe we have gone so far. But well, no difference steph, you're the same person as before!

Anonymous said...

You're grown up enough to realise your mistake and faults, if you dont then you seriously need to open your eyes a little more.

When i said im sorry i meant it and that was that, story ends. But then you had to go and blog it up with MY NAME stated there.. So i retaliate again..

Why do you have to lie to cover your tracks? You NEVER said that they should not pay you just shouted back "THAT IS THEIR PROBLEM!" ..

You still think you shudnt pay for the reason of NOT drinking.. after all the comments you're still blinded.. lol..

Oh well, it seems you dont realise anything yet.. I'll just let you be.. say what you want, think what you want.. i dont care..

Argueing over the internet is just like winning the special olympics, even if you win.. you're still retarded.. nuff said.


Peace,
Layzebone

Anonymous said...

My GOD, Steph
I really dunno how in this world you have a heart to write down those comment, Anyhow, you are a bad liar.
We all know what happened that night, and now you are trying to brainwash everybody who read your blog? Namo Amitabha...

We are all know the truth. May GOD Himself forgive you. You will not forgotten by the most of the clubbing members that nite. I assume.

Anonymous said...

"Argueing over the internet is just like winning the special olympics, even if you win.. you're still retarded.. nuff said."

I agree with that^^^^. Cause everyone are retard! including me!

"$$$ is not as important as friendship right? Why u all just can't let her go and pass through? Peace.... is the best ending. And again, Let it go......"
I agree with this too. Money is evil.

Anonymous said...

enough said, if you got a friend who bitches back at everyone with such a long post after a nite out turned sour ... thats gonna be last time everyone is gonna go out with you ...

and those who was there that nite and came back here and bitch back at the one who did the bitching should just let it go ... let her bitch bout and rant for all she wants la ... for all you knoo u people are not gonna be calling her out anymore rite ... thats is for sure to happen ...

and some of you have the courtesy to split the disputed amount and let her go la ... next time for whatsoever nite out or any drinking binge, dont include her, dont aske her, dont tell her la - coz you know she is not gonna drink, she is not gonna pay if she doesnt drink ...

why u wanna call someone out who doesnt drink? unless its some mamak session la ...

and yes, if you are invited, like say a guy called you out, and u said ok, then basically its the guy who is gonna fork out your share la ... if you agree to join ... join and invited is 2 different terms when u go out driking or clubbing ... when u agree to join a group of friends, and especially everyone is paying or sharing the bill, u pay la ... or u just dont go, dont say u are going but not drinking and decides not to pay ... just exclude urself and dont go ...

guys - those who were out that nite, have the courtesy to pay for her share, and let it go ... and dont be like her and bitch back at her with anonymous nick ...

u wanna tell someone off, tell it in her face or at least tell her who u are ...

Anonymous said...

diuz la!!!!! sohai ppl